I've amended this model by qualifying the deposits. The 5 languages of love are:
touch, affirmations, gifts, quality time, and acts of service. We can rank ‘em for different people, perhaps even different relationships.
Now, I ask everyone I love, which as you know means everyone I meet, to rank these. I am sometimes surprised by the answers, but I know how to best show love to people in my life.
2 Love is that which helps one to grow.