Theory of love and relationships as described to Matt Sisul:
Relationships: By Kurt Gerwitz
- Currently, I combine two models of relationships. The one is the common pool of positive regard. Basically the bank account theory. People, like John Gray (Men are From Mars), have used a point system and the language of deposits and withdrawals. I’m my last relationship, facing my father’s grief I took more withdrawals than our account could handle. I ignored the overdraft notices, and was nonetheless surprised when she closed our account.